Marilou Chincarini Obituary (1932 - 2024)

Celebrating the beautiful life of Marilou Chincarini, born on October 8, 1932, in Rockford, Illinois, we are reminded of her creative and spirited force. Marilou passed away peacefully in her sleep on January 12, 2024, in Tooele, Utah, where she was surrounded by her family. She left an indelible mark on every life she touched, enriching each day with her love, charisma, and sass. She lived life in vibrant color, her personality as striking as her sequin shoes and leopard prints, her laughter as radiant as her gold jewelry. Marilou married Jack Baker in 1950 and together they had 3 sons. They later divorced but remained good friends. She later married Joe Chincarini in 1977. Her career as the Activity Director at the Westlake Gold Country Retirement Community in Vallejo, California, was a testament to her natural ability to bring joy to others. She was the true life of the party, a woman of many talents, a brilliant artist, a wonderful cook, and a world traveler who constantly sought new experiences and perspectives. Marilou was a life-long member of the Catholic Church. The word that best describes Marilou is ‘giving.’ With no questions asked, as well as no judgement, she was always more than willing to help family, a friend, or even a stranger. After all, they weren’t a stranger for long. Marilou was a friendly, outgoing lady. She loved making new friends and loved bringing others happiness. Always glammed up, no matter the occasion - she always looked fabulous. Admired for her iconic style - she had great fashion taste. She was a proud member of the Red Hat Society, and even went on to start her own chapters, "The Diamond Lils," in Manteca, California and Tooele, Utah. She was known affectionately as the ‘Queen Mum.’ She lived in various places leaving her sparkle and red feathers from her boa everywhere she went. Marilou lived a fulfilled life using her gifts of creativity, charisma, and generosity to serve others and spread joy. She is survived by her sister Patricia Svetlik of Laramie, Wyoming; sons John (Tami) Baker of Erda, Utah; Patrick (Michelle) Baker of Tooele, Utah; and Scott Baker of Stockton, California. She had 10 grandchildren and 17 great grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her beloved mother, Cecilia Culavin; her younger brother, Bud Scroch; cherished husbands, Jack Baker and Joe Chincarini; and her dear friend Neef Walker. Marilou was a bright light on earth, always had a twinkle in her eye, a beautiful smile, a friend to all. Please gather your family and friends in memory of Marilou. She loved a good party. Her family loved her dearly and are looking forward to seeing her again. We are grateful for the knowledge that heaven is beautiful, and she now is in the presence of God and many loved ones who were waiting to welcome her home. We invite you to share your memories of Marilou, upload photos, and continue celebrating her life on the memorial page. Let us remember her fun spirit, her laughter, her generosity, and her love for life. Here's to Marilou, our beautiful Mother, Grandmother, and friend who will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Marilou will be laid to rest in Gillette, Wyoming. A celebration of life will be held for family and friends in the near future; date and time will be published. Our family would like to thank Debbie and the staff at Our House Assisted Living for the remarkable care, compassion and love that Marilou received as well as Jordan Rydalch and Katie Hyrum with Atlas Homecare & Hospice and Lacey Cooper with Mobile Medical. "Well-behaved women rarely make history," and Marilou definitely left her mark!